How to leave Friendzone Ville

April 08, 2014

Lately, i have been thinking of doing a post about friendzone and what is my opinion about it. This is a real talk right here people, so please don't mind if i sound a little aggressive and pushy of how i put up my words. But please be informed that some of my opinions here may contradict your's so i suggest you to just scroll down say what's in your mind about my outfit. hehe


For once in our lives, there will always be that one person we just can't get over with. Say it's your childhood friend that you secretly have a crush on or your high school classmate that even though you have no communications at all, you still think of him everyday. I know it sounds crazy but believe me, i know someone. Look, by simply suppressing your feelings for someone in the hopes of getting rid of him from your heart doesn't necessarily mean that you can move on with that alone. It will only build up some kind of invisible force that serves as your suppressed-feelings for him, and the longer you keep it the stronger it will be.

When time comes that the invincible force of your suppressed-feelings is bursting strong, it will eat you up and will cause you the pain of longing. Okay, you guys may be wondering what im blabbering about, but im talking about the people who are living at Friendzone Ville, and not just by a person but also being friendzoned by time. Yes, time can trick us, and you'll never know until you're feeling that you've been ripped off over the course of time-will-heal-all-wounds, because the truth is, time never heals anything, people just seems to forget what the feeling was like the first time they felt it, because they are too occupied of their current life, and c'mon! there's so much to life than to think about a 'dude' y'know. And because there are some people that are not too occupied with their lives, they end up feeling stuck from the past, that's why the feelings all the same the first time they felt it. Seriously, it's not really about time, it's the way how you think and filter stuff through time.

Why do i sounds like enlighten here? lol!
So the bottom line is, if you're still stuck from an old romantic feelings for someone, you have to admit to yourself that you are secretly inlove and tell him about it. Hey, you're not telling him about it to start a relationship y'know, it's about freeing yourself from a tight grip of the past. And who knows? He might fall for you after your confession! It's all about courage girl!

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Anyways, I got this Vintage Tote Bag from OASAP. Isn't it pretty? I really love the color and it is light in weight and you can fit in lot of stuff inside without this bag looking full. It's pretty much my to-go bag because you can pair it from denims to laces and still you look polished and chic. I got a lot of compliments by wearing this bag, it's actually the highlight of my outfit.


I wore this outfit when me and my sister went out for lunch, eventhough this outfit is not really much, i quite love it because its kind of my laid back style and i choose to wear denims full on to highlight my bag without looking a little too much because i get bored when there's too much going on in one outfit.


Because it's already summer here in Philippines, accentuated this peplum sleeveless with beaded statement necklace paired with skinny jeans and studded black shoes. And of course my trustworthy white watch because i just can't go out without a watch in my wrist.







top: Just G.
bag: OASAP
necklace: Follie
watch: Eazy Fashion
shoes: DM



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95 comments

  1. cute
    xo

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  2. nice look ,love total denim look<3
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  3. we adore your photos and your style! nice to meet you!
    Un abbraccio,
    Eva e Valentina the anarCHIC

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  4. lovely!!!!!!! love your outfit!!!

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  5. lovely!!!!!!! love your outfit!!!

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  6. I want your bag and that's great advice. The post changed it up a bit, you know?

    xoxo,
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  7. cool look dear, I love the colors you mixed!!!
    xx
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  8. Great post!!!!!!!
    And your look is perfect!!
    XoXo

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  9. You look absolutely adorable my darling, I fell in love with the first photo with balloons, very pretty! <3

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  10. I agree so much with you on this. Not speaking out your feelings are the worst thing, because the other person will never know about them and you risk to be in the friendzone for the rest of your life lol

    Love this outfit, specially the tote bag ♥ Thanks for visiting my blog, lovely! xx
    Love,
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  11. Love this shoot! The jeans are such a nice cut. Loving the bag also. xx

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  12. I'm not quite sure if I have friendzoned someone because I like him, but I'm sure I have friendzoned some guys because I really didn't like them and they were/are just good friends for me.

    I love your blouse/top and your bag, they're sol lovely!!

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  13. Very chic, the bag is so cute. You look fab. :)

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  14. Awesome look dear !! you bag is so cute :) love it !! xx
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  15. it really takes time to forget that someone,. and day by day you will learn to love yourself first before someone else.. love this post!! :)

    and i love your outfit and the bag soo chic :))

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  16. Aw you and your outfit are just adorable! I love the jeans paired with the peplum top and that peter pan collar necklace :) I also liked those but never could pull them off properly like you have! Also adore the crossbar flats and that gorgeous pink tote bag!

    Also, hope that you manage to pluck up the courage to tell that guy the truth of your feelings! I have done that a few times and while it can be the most embarrassing thing you'll ever do, I think you'll be better for it. Even if the guy totally doesn't like you back, at least you'll have closure, you AND him can appreciate your bravery, and you can move on! Basically, a win-win situation... Sorta :P

    xx Debbie

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  17. Love that bag! Such a pretty look :)

    xoxo

    Novelstyle

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  18. El bolso es una preciosidad, me encanta.
    Gracias por el comentario:)

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  19. Love the colour of the bag :)

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  20. I really like your outfit! :))
    The colours are perfect!

    xxx, Ly :)
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  21. Beautiful outfit. As for the secret crushes... Sometimes it's worth admitting them, but often it's best just to move on and remind yourself a good old "why waste time thinking of somebody who doesn't think of you at all'... x

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  22. lovely necklace and bag...
    xoxo

    -Verna-
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  23. Great post and your outfit is fab! Love everything!

    Sam
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  24. love the bag!
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  25. I lov your post,kisses.
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  26. Word of advice don't give up on that person in the friend zone! My now husband was my best friend my first two years of high school and when I developed a crush on him it took me awhile to bring it out of the friend zone to a relationship! So glad I did because we have been together over 9 years and married almost 2 now! :) cute outfit as well!!

    <3 Shannon
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  27. What a pretty look dear <3


    xx
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  28. Sarah thats all true what you said. Im agreed :)
    New follower dear show some love <3
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  29. I absolutely love the bag (: is it oasap? it looks so much like celine

    xx Anna
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  30. Hi, love the bag. Great look!!

    Kisses

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  31. Great look...I love It.
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  32. I like the look. The bag is beautiful.

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  33. First foto is really cool)

    mary-tur.ru

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  34. Digging the pretty spring color of that bag, babe!

    -Ashley
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  35. super cute pink tote bag, and really sweet denim on denim outfit there!

    Check out my latest outfit post! :)
    AL xx
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  36. Really lovely outfit <3
    kisses

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  37. Really really lovely, cute colour and size!! <3

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  38. Beautiful photos :)
    Kisses*
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  39. Love your bag!!
    Kisses

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  40. you look cute with pretty pink bag.. Loves your outfit ^^

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  41. Hi Zara! I think you're too young to have heartache still much to live! I like the color of your bag, and also the new design of your blog <3

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  42. Yea, being friendzoned can be really heart breaking.
    Love that bag of yours!

    If you'd like to follow each other, my links are in my sidebar. I follow everyone back!

    Sandy xx
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  43. cute look!
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  44. lovely look! and your necklace is so cute!

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  45. All, what you write, it's true...
    And the bag is very nice.

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  46. Beautiful pics!! Love that neckpiece and lovely top!! :)

    Kisses
    Charu
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  47. Beautiful look, dear♥
    Have a nice day!
    <3
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  48. Great post! Totally agree with you....one should confess and move on!
    Love the neckpiece so much!
    Already following you girl...thanks for you lovely comment and the follow... Keep in touch! <3
    Neha
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  49. I've always been the first one to confess my feelings(in all my major relationships). LOL!
    Love your outfit.
    -Ru
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  50. Awesome!
    I love everything about this outfit, it's so adorable ♥
    Have a lovely day,
    Christine G ♥

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  51. so amazing set! color of bag & the shoes are breathtakin'!

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  52. Love this outfit, Sarah!! Ang ganda ng bag mo sobra <3 I want it! It's inspired by Celine's famous Luggage tote, isn't it? Ahhhh it's beautiful. Even the color is perfect!

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  53. Cool pics, you're so beautiful!
    I'd be happy to see you on my blog :)
    Good luck!

    I'm a new follower ;*
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  54. I feel the same with someone and yeah so shy to tell him but when we get very close to each other, my crush feelings for him went away and we ended up being good friends. Btw, that happened years ago. So when I look back to those memories,grrr hehe. I can now say "crush kita, pero datipa yun hahah"

    I love your bag and your shoes.
    xoxo

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  55. Cute look I really like the top :)

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  56. I love your bag!

    Abby
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  57. Amazing outfit, i love your bag! *-*

    *Beijinhos*
    Caty<3
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  58. you look so pretty, I like your hair <3 greetings!

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  59. love the look of this bag!
    a great alternative to the celine handbag we've all been lusting after!

    :)
    vanessa
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  60. lovely outfit
    u luk so cute
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  61. I love your double denim look!
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  62. Lovely bag!!!!!
    I love this cute pink colour!!!


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  63. Nice photos
    love the bag
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  64. You look so cute in this outfit! And I adore your bag <3

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  65. Amazing photos, you look very pretty and this outfit is effect for spring/summer :)

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  66. You're such a pretty girl and your outfit is so lovely! Take care beautiful :*

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  67. You are so cute and pretty! Very nice post and nice pics! :)

    Nidda

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  68. love total denim look<3
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  69. Perfect look with blue and pink! Your bag it's wonderful!

    xoxo

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  70. This is such a cute outfit and I agree 100% with your advice!
    You never know what could happen if you never try! I have been in a similar situation and did not say anything and now looking back, I kinda regret it.. but again, I'm still young!
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  71. cute bag indeed! oh friend zone is such a thing these days and not being able to get over someone is definitely one of the reasons why. hope less people get caught in it!

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  72. Such a cute outfit! I love your bag!!

    xx,
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  73. very beautiful <3
    lov ur style
    xx :)

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  74. I love the colour of your bag dear, so pretty !

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  75. love your bag! :) so cute. the color is perfect :)

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  76. Great post! Love your bag! Kisses
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  77. You look fabulous doll awesome outfit enjoy your weekend.
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  78. Great look, love your bag ;)
    Greets, Nabil ;)

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  79. gorgeous outfit and i agree with you in telling the friend :D
    x
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  80. Aww your so adorable! Love the outfit and love the first photo by the water! :)

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  81. Lovely post! It's nice to come across informative posts that you can actually use in regular life. cute outfit too:)

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  82. I love pink bag!!
    I am happy to become your new follower

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  83. Love that bag! And great advice, I agree there is no point keeping your feelings bottled up for so long!

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  84. love your bag and you look amazing!

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  85. pretty shoes and pics
    kss
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  86. Great handbag !!! Also you can always get out the friend zone- my boyfriend was in my 'friend zone' for the whole of university and now its great as he is my boyfriend swell as my best friend =]

    x Victoria @ Alf & Emilio

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  87. i am IN friendzone, lol i love your chic look, my favorite pic is the last one with little hair flick, so pretty :3

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  88. Cute look :)
    xx
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