How to leave Friendzone Ville
April 08, 2014
Lately, i have been thinking of doing a post about friendzone and what is my opinion about it. This is a real talk right here people, so please don't mind if i sound a little aggressive and pushy of how i put up my words. But please be informed that some of my opinions here may contradict your's so i suggest you to just scroll down say what's in your mind about my outfit. hehe
For once in our lives, there will always be that one person we just can't get over with. Say it's your childhood friend that you secretly have a crush on or your high school classmate that even though you have no communications at all, you still think of him everyday. I know it sounds crazy but believe me, i know someone. Look, by simply suppressing your feelings for someone in the hopes of getting rid of him from your heart doesn't necessarily mean that you can move on with that alone. It will only build up some kind of invisible force that serves as your suppressed-feelings for him, and the longer you keep it the stronger it will be.
When time comes that the invincible force of your suppressed-feelings is bursting strong, it will eat you up and will cause you the pain of longing. Okay, you guys may be wondering what im blabbering about, but im talking about the people who are living at Friendzone Ville, and not just by a person but also being friendzoned by time. Yes, time can trick us, and you'll never know until you're feeling that you've been ripped off over the course of time-will-heal-all-wounds, because the truth is, time never heals anything, people just seems to forget what the feeling was like the first time they felt it, because they are too occupied of their current life, and c'mon! there's so much to life than to think about a 'dude' y'know. And because there are some people that are not too occupied with their lives, they end up feeling stuck from the past, that's why the feelings all the same the first time they felt it. Seriously, it's not really about time, it's the way how you think and filter stuff through time.
Why do i sounds like enlighten here? lol!
So the bottom line is, if you're still stuck from an old romantic feelings for someone, you have to admit to yourself that you are secretly inlove and tell him about it. Hey, you're not telling him about it to start a relationship y'know, it's about freeing yourself from a tight grip of the past. And who knows? He might fall for you after your confession! It's all about courage girl!
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Anyways, I got this Vintage Tote Bag from OASAP. Isn't it pretty? I really love the color and it is light in weight and you can fit in lot of stuff inside without this bag looking full. It's pretty much my to-go bag because you can pair it from denims to laces and still you look polished and chic. I got a lot of compliments by wearing this bag, it's actually the highlight of my outfit.
I wore this outfit when me and my sister went out for lunch, eventhough this outfit is not really much, i quite love it because its kind of my laid back style and i choose to wear denims full on to highlight my bag without looking a little too much because i get bored when there's too much going on in one outfit.
Because it's already summer here in Philippines, accentuated this peplum sleeveless with beaded statement necklace paired with skinny jeans and studded black shoes. And of course my trustworthy white watch because i just can't go out without a watch in my wrist.
top: Just G.
bag: OASAP
necklace: Follie
watch: Eazy Fashion
shoes: DM
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91 comments
cute
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nice look ,love total denim look<3
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lovely!!!!!!! love your outfit!!!
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I want your bag and that's great advice. The post changed it up a bit, you know?
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cool look dear, I love the colors you mixed!!!
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Great post!!!!!!!
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You look absolutely adorable my darling, I fell in love with the first photo with balloons, very pretty! <3
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I agree so much with you on this. Not speaking out your feelings are the worst thing, because the other person will never know about them and you risk to be in the friendzone for the rest of your life lol
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Love this shoot! The jeans are such a nice cut. Loving the bag also. xx
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I'm not quite sure if I have friendzoned someone because I like him, but I'm sure I have friendzoned some guys because I really didn't like them and they were/are just good friends for me.
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Very chic, the bag is so cute. You look fab. :)
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it really takes time to forget that someone,. and day by day you will learn to love yourself first before someone else.. love this post!! :)
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Aw you and your outfit are just adorable! I love the jeans paired with the peplum top and that peter pan collar necklace :) I also liked those but never could pull them off properly like you have! Also adore the crossbar flats and that gorgeous pink tote bag!
ReplyDeleteAlso, hope that you manage to pluck up the courage to tell that guy the truth of your feelings! I have done that a few times and while it can be the most embarrassing thing you'll ever do, I think you'll be better for it. Even if the guy totally doesn't like you back, at least you'll have closure, you AND him can appreciate your bravery, and you can move on! Basically, a win-win situation... Sorta :P
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Word of advice don't give up on that person in the friend zone! My now husband was my best friend my first two years of high school and when I developed a crush on him it took me awhile to bring it out of the friend zone to a relationship! So glad I did because we have been together over 9 years and married almost 2 now! :) cute outfit as well!!
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Great post! Totally agree with you....one should confess and move on!
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I've always been the first one to confess my feelings(in all my major relationships). LOL!
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I feel the same with someone and yeah so shy to tell him but when we get very close to each other, my crush feelings for him went away and we ended up being good friends. Btw, that happened years ago. So when I look back to those memories,grrr hehe. I can now say "crush kita, pero datipa yun hahah"
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