Being Rude Will Get You to Nowhere

September 28, 2014


Everyday i wake up, i always try to reset my state of mind. I always make sure that i am at my best everyday. I always make sure to be nice and all. Because by that, i can lessen the amount of rudeness happening everyday.

When i look at people who looks at me, i always smile.
When people ask me questions, i always answer, even if its too awkward.
Because i don't want people to feel like they're less than what they are.
I don't want them to feel awkward pain.
I don't want them to just shrink just because people doesn't pay attention to them.
Because i do pay attention to everything i see.
Some people ive met are rude to me. I don't know why. Maybe because, they thought that being rude puts them higher than the other people. They think that brushing off people makes them look cool. But sorry, that ain't cool and will never be.

Making others feel so small about themselves, does NOT make you any bigger. It's just show how small and shallow you are as a person. Showing no kindness to other people is just plain rude okay?
Even if you think you're too cool to call their names, or to talk to them, JUST DO.
Because the people you think that are lower than you, are sometimes the ones who have something big, but just not too proud to show it off. 
So avoid being the laughing-stock in the end. And please be nice because being rude will get you to nowhere. For you, it may seem like you are ahead of other people, but trust me, YOU ARE NOT. 






So lovely readers, you may be wondering why i have these 3 different backgrounds in one post hmmm? It's just that i can't find a place that have nice lights while im outside the gate. You can tell by my first photo how hot the afternoon was, its was taken around 2 pm, my eyes are half close, and the rest looks a bit yellow, and im a noob at editing so yeah, i deleted the other photos because they all suck. How i wish we have a nice park near our place huhu :'( 


This look is something i have a guilty-pleasure of donning because i really like shorts but just can't bring myself to wear one because of my awful legs. But you know, sometimes when i wake up i feel like i could wear anything and just don't care about people and their thoughts. Ahhh carefree days, still lives in me!


This Necklace is from www.jewelrycoco.com
I don't know if you have heard that site before, but i think you should really check them out because they have lovely accessories, from necklaces to rings and everything in between!


I know most of you are already familiar in that store because they are quite popular already. They have high quality products with affordable prices, and i just love their sneaks their!


So what do you think of my look?
Comments are loved <3

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64 comments

  1. Chic outfit..love ur sneakers!

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  2. Very well written Sarah :) loved your shorts.

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  3. This is a really cute look. I love the shoes and your adorable purse!

    xo Azu

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  4. Lovely necklace!

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  5. you very pretty in this look!

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  6. The look is cute Sarah... I totally agree with you about when people are rude... it makes them small... not you. Very thoughtful post :-)

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  7. your necklace and your shoes are sooooooo cute!! <3 :D

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  8. I really like your shoes, they're so cute! :)

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  9. I agree! Just be yourself and continue to be kind and sweet and doing what you love to do! :)

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  10. Mhhm, I have to deal with rude people daily so I can relate to this :/

    Love the skirt and shoes!

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  11. Your outfit as a whole is gorgeous! xx

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  12. i love your necklace and i also love what you wrote about rudness.

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  13. You look pretty!
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  14. You are great person.
    Love the shoes so much :)

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  15. Great outfit! I love your necklace. I totally agree with your post. Kindness takes your further than being rude. I've had my experiences where people thought they were so entitled and rude and it always made me feel small. I've quickly learned that life treats you so much more if you are kind!

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  16. I agree with everything you have said here Sarah! Great post and love your shoes btw! :)

    xo,
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  17. Your necklace and shoes are so beautiful and your outfit is cool. Very pretty legs and gorgeous you :) Great message too! If only we could all act that way the world would be healed for sure! xoxo

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  18. Great article! I do agree that these people feel that being rude and full of negativity can make them stand out and they enjoy such attention. In actual fact it makes them look really shallow and sad. The world would be a better place if everyone think like you :)

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  19. Loved reading about this and I totally agree!

    Steph,
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  20. all your words are perfect and i agree with you . Doesnt matter what the other people think about us , we have to be ourselves and give all our best

    GREAT OUTFIT

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  21. Seriously the best ootd ever & those shoes are killers !! xoxo

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  22. Beautiful :)) loved the necklace.
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  23. you look so cute! love the outfit

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  24. i love ur necklace so much! nice outfit!! <3

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    tasha
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  25. Never mind them rude people Sarah, they'll stay for what they are forever and they'll never shine like you do. Rude people will never be successful, it's a wonderful thing how you handle them, keep smiling and be happy always!!! This is so inspiring!
    <3 Your shoes is so cute btw!!!, wala sila ana hahahaha LOL

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    Tin

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  26. Omg that floral sneaker! Love it!! x

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  27. You look great. I'm so digging those shoes!!

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  28. that shoes <3

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  29. Hi dear Sarah, your words touch my heart, You are sweet girl, never change! I know jewelry Coco I am await a necklace too :) You look is nice and the necklace is beautiful!

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  30. such a cute outfit. love all the florals. isn't it nice to receive a smile from a stranger?

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  31. So pretty ! I love your outfit specially the shoes and necklace ! Awesome !

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  32. Its so true.. Being nice always help. Even if its to random people on the road! Here's my link. Hope you visit!

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  33. It's always good to be friendly even if you're not in a good mood. I think it's the little things that really add up! Love your outfit - your legs are fine! You gotta wear shorts, girl, you live in a hot climate! The background in the first picture is absolutely stunning.

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  34. cute shorts and love the necklace!
    xo,
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  35. I love the inspirational post! Your outfit is so pretty as well. The floral sneakers are too cool!

    Best,
    Christina

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  36. love this post, very inspirational ans honest :)


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  37. You're so right, rudeness is not a very nice character trait. I love your girly outfit, especially the pretty necklace with the flower! Thanks for your lovely comment, xoxo
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  38. You look very cute. Have a great day!

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  39. You bring up a very good point - there is absolutely no reason for anyone to be impolite to another.. there's enough negativity in the world without us all shoving more each other's way! On a brighter note, you look wonderful colourful and playful :) Thanks for sharing and hope you're having a good week! :)

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  40. I agree with you :) I think your photos are great and your shoes are cute!

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  41. I love your necklace!!
    xo
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  42. Exactly!!! I agree, it's always nice to be nice, there's nothing worse than people being impolite…there's no need! A smile can change someones day, you never know what people are going through and what their circumstances are…

    Layla xx

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  43. Nice outfit! Love your shoes :)

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  44. We totally agree, rudeness is such an unattractive trait! Everyone deserves a little R-E-S-P-E-C-T. On to your outfit, we love the way you've style the shorts!

    M + K

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  45. Oh, Sarah, you're sooo lovely! Lots of people should read this text. X

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  46. I do the same, everyday that I wake up I try to reset my state of mind. xoxo

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  47. Such a lovely outfit!
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  48. Such an amazing post, with an amazing message behind it! Love!

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  49. This is so true, and important - thanks for sharing. I love your outfit too, very cute and that necklace is beautiful. Phoebe ox
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  50. You seem like a very very nice person. Love your styling as well keep it up~

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  51. such a stunning look, love the photos!
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  52. totally respect what you are saying. love the outfit too. now following :) xx sylvie

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  53. This is such a good post. I get to reflect my action towards other people.

    PS: I love your shoes girl!

    xo,
    Louise
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  54. Super love your outfit! Btw, followed you. Thanks for visiting my blog. *hugs and kisses*

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