Perks of Being a Wallflower

July 18, 2014

I always thought of myself as an old soul and that im different to everyone. Going out, mingling with the same  typical souls everyday was a very hard thing for me to do. Because they were all like all over the place and what matters to them is how famous you are, how many friends you have, how pretty you are, how skinny you are, how friendly you are, how smart you are... and i just can go on and on. When standing in a room full of crowds, the safest place for me was to sit into the corner of the room, just watching how slowly the time tick by. 


Being a wallflower can be tough, because you have to adapt, you have to understand why people treat you like you are just a waste in space. And mingling with loud people isn't a wallflower's thing. I know, i tried. People say that i am anti-social, that i am shy, but they're all wrong. They will never understand how its like to walk in a shoe of a wallflower until they do. The thing is, we wallflowers aren't shy or anti-social at all, it has nothing to do with it really. We just need reasons to interact, because we don't interact for the sake of interacting. Okay? Okay.

So, perks of being a wallflower? Well, i tend to be more reserved, i have small circle of friends but are trusted and loyal, so if you're one of my few friends, you better consider yourself special, very special. These perks might not be as big as your perks in life, but what matters is that, i am thankful that im doing what i love, i am spending my time with the people i love. 

“I wanted to laugh. Or maybe get mad. Or maybe shrug at how strange everyone was, especially me.” 
- Perks of Being a Wallflower






If you've seen my last post (here) then you already know that i got stuffs from www.banggood.comI love how fast their delivery was and that all the items are exactly whats in the picture. That's the thing i love about an online store, if they pose to be good and reliable one and live with it? Then ill be supporting them all the way.

For the details of this look:

This Floral Chiffon Dress was from Banggood.com. When i saw this in their store, i immediately fall inlove because its just so feminine without being too showy and the prints are so pretty,and the chiffon cloth is just so complimenting.  I also love how slim i looked in this dress all thanks to the belt that comes in with this dress. 


And this Cat Head Shoulder Bag also from Banggood.com is perfect! I just love how cute this bag is, i gotta admit that i got a heart for kitties <3 I really thought that this bag would be small but actually i can fit a lot of stuff in here, i even used this in school and in the office, because its pretty handy while in style.




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68 comments

  1. Nice!:)) xx
    Bianka
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  2. Lovely dress! Amazing bag!
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  3. Gorgeous! Love that bag and dress


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  4. Adorable outfit you look look stunning.
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  5. You look gorgeous, Love the colors, accessories, hair.. everything about this look! kisses

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  6. I totally get you, I feel the same as you do! :)
    Also, I love your outfit, it's so cute x

    Love, Sara Wallflower
    http://sarawallflower.blogspot.com/

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  7. I want that bag aaaaaaaaa!!!!! soooooo cute!!! xx :D

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  8. You look gorgeous, love this dress and the bag too :)) I can understand how you feel, have felt that way myself :))) I hope you have a great weekend & thanks for visiting my blog doll xx

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  9. Hello Sarah :)
    Well, I don't consider myself as a wallflower naman.
    I could mingle to a crowd of people and be friendly to them and that's it.
    I only limit myself to friends who are also true, loyal and accepts the real me.
    Medyo cautious na rin ako sa pakikisalamuha sa maraming tao eh... marami na akong karanasan sa ganyan... ung tipong akala mo eh "okay na tao" sa simula, pero hindi naman pala...

    so ayun, maraming salamat pala sa pagbisita sa aking blog.
    balik ka ulet and added you to my blog list!

    P.s
    oh you're an Otaku, same here!

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  10. i understand how you feel :) btw. love your outfit.. super love the bag :)

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  11. from your pics i would never have thought that you have an introvert personality :) my boyfriend is also an introvert and he says the exact same thing (reason to interact part). me naman i used to be an extrovert turn introvert and now im trying to find a good balance between the two :)
    PS: love your cute kitty bag

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  12. You are a beautiful wallflower!!! :))
    Have a great weekend!

    ~HumbleBeauty
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  13. I really love the dress and the shoes match perfectly!! Great look!!

    XO,
    Shirley
    TrueHonestFashion

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  14. I too am an old soul, and in grade school and high school, I didn't have friends, I didn't want to hang out with other kids because I didn't like what they were into and they were so obsessed with beauty and stature (in school)
    Cute bag, you look lovely!

    besos,
    M
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  15. Super cute outfit! I love how you brought out the reds. The cat bag is also a nice touch. (^ ^)

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  16. Lovely lovely dress :)

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  17. Ganda ng outfit mo, Sarah! Love the dress <3 The print is so cute.

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  18. cute bag!! such a quirky and fun look :)

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  19. this outfit is amazingggg!!!♥

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    yuval

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  20. Hi dear!

    Thank you so much for visiting my blog and leaving a comment :)
    I love your outfit here. It looks adorable! I love every single item, especially the dress.
    I followed you. Let's stay in touch?

    xx
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  21. So pretty!!! Lovely dress!!!!

    Ciao bellissima!!!
    Kisses
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  22. simply stunning..I love the entire look and accessories!
    Kiss
    Elisa
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  23. Beautiful! Love your blog too!
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  24. You look so cute!
    xoxo
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  25. nice shoes
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  26. I love your chiffon dress! And the cat shoulder bag..you have such a fun look :)

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  27. I am sure your personality shines through in your very pretty sense of style! p.s. Love you to check out my blog too! xx

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  28. Очень красивый наряд!
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  29. You're such a cute wallflower....love how u paired those suede wedges with that adorable dress!!! Already makes me think of Fall!!!

    Rebecca
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  30. a wonderful post, I really like your outfit, and I have a bag of dog, I really like yours cat.

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  31. Your bag is so cute! Love it. Have a great weekend
    xoxo, Ty
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  32. Lovely wallflower in a lovely dress ;) xo
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  33. That dress is amazing! I love the burgundy pieces you incorporated. Killin' it :)

    xo
    Ash
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  34. I want everything you're wearing! Especially that dress :)

    xo, Pau
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  35. Love the outfit! I really like the dress! And yeah, wallflowers aren't necessarily shy. Introverted maybe, but that being an introvert does not equate to being shy or having low self esteem. We just want to reserve our energy for things that are more important - not just socializing and allowing extroverts to suck our energies out.

    Jenn
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  36. Yay looking so cute and pretty Sarah!!! ganda ng dress mo!!! bagay kau!!!!!!
    hahaha ngano code switching ako comments? ahhaha
    anyway super like your bag!!!!!! neko!!!!!!!!!!!!!!hehehe
    <3

    love lots,
    Tin

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  37. lovely dress and awesome and thoughtful post
    I too love to interact only when there is any topic to discuss,So you can also call me a wallflower like you
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  38. I love your style! I'm kind of a wallflower too and I'm very shy and have a small group of friends. Your neko bag is so cute and I love that you're otaku. :)

    Daisy l littlekawaiidaisy

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  39. Hey, Sarah! I love the post, especially your words and thoughts on how you see yourself being a wallflower. I think being popular doesn't necessarily mean you have good friends and here's the catch: quality is way more important than quantity. If you have few good friends, you're a blessed person. The best thing in life is to have like-minded people whom you can trust and rely on for comfort and support, that's what really matters. xo

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  40. Hola. Me ha gustado muchísimo el conjunto: el vestido es realmente bonito y el bolso muy original. La combinación estupenda.

    Un blog muy cuidado y elegante. Me gusta.

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  41. I really love this, and can totally relate to the whole wallflower thing x

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  42. Sarah you look absolutely lovely in that dress, hat and bag!!!

    I'm also pretty quiet in a large room and many times, people ask me if I am okay. I am somewhat of an introvert and like to keep a close group of friends as well. We are quite similar ^__^


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  43. Aww, so, so cute. I think i can relate to you being a wall flower and i you are not different. You are just being you and being comfortably happy being just happy. I really like your post and i particularly love this outfit. You are awesome!!

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  44. Lovely post. I can relate so much.
    Love your outfit by the way! The dress is super cute.

    xx Mimmi, Muted Mornings

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  45. I am totally an old soul too. You don't look anything like a wallflower in this outfit though. Love the floral.

    xo, Amy Ann
    The Real Arnolds

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  46. Your outfit is so cute. It made you look so young, young as in as young as a HS student!
    Cute dress :)

    xoxo,
    SHAIRA
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  47. you're so cute and stylish!)

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  48. The bag is so cute! I recently stumbled across your blog and I LOVE it! I love the layout to the content and everything in between! Your style is just impeccable! I am your newest follower and reader, I look forward to reading your future posts. I would love it if you could check out my blog too!
    Have a lovely day!

    Love from MISSIFFA

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  49. I feel you and I love this post plus your dress is so pretty! You look lovely ♥

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  50. loveee the colors of your outfit.. hat, bag, shoes and dress so perfect!!

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  51. Loving the look, I especially love your burgundy trilby.
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  52. Really digging the red in this outfit. The cat bag is so cute and hilarious, its the perfect touch to spice up any outfit!

    ManeUntame

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  53. Nice dress! And love love cat bag :)
    xox

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  54. Such a cute look!
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  55. Me encantan, tu vestido y bolso son geniales!
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  56. What a lovely dress! Love the combination with bordeaux :)

    Love, Rachel
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  57. That dress is so adorable!! Everything of good, including the title!!

    <3
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  58. Such a cute and unique look :D

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  59. Pretyy.. loves the red hat and the red shoes.. pretty match
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