The Choices We Make

September 13, 2014

When you look at yourself in the mirror, are you really looking at your self?
Or just checking yourself?
And have you taken a really close look at yourself lately?
Then what do you see?
A person you want to become?
Or a person you just settled to be? 

These are just some of the questions i know most of you haven't asked yourselves yet.
And if you asked yourselves these questions...
Do you know what's the answer?

I know, i don't know too.
The only certain way to know or to atleast know these,
Is if we're taking the right way and making the right choices.

Are you making the right choices then?

Choices happens everytime.
Like in the morning when you wake up...
Do you stay in bed and wait for another 10 minutes?
Or get up and throw yourself in the shower?
Do you eat your breakfast or skip?
Choices happens when we make our choice,
And its a never ending choice until it's our time to make the last choice.

Sometimes the smallest choice we make,
Ends up to be the biggest one.
So everybody gear up because we have a lot of choices to make. lol!

Bottom line is...
You are what you are with the choices you make.
If you choose the right one, then good.
And if you choose the other one...
I think you have your reasons and you can learn from it.
Let's just keep in mind that...
Every time we make our choice, make sure that our future self will thank us for that.


Hello lovely readers! 
That's quite a long read right? I don't blame you, if you didn't finished reading it. lol! 
Haha too wordy for you? I know!
Anyway, i wrote it to remind myself that, sometimes it's okay to make the wrong choice. Just don't make the same mistake haha! 
In the wrong choices we make, we can learn from it so yeah... im learning.

So anyway, im sharing with you this look. What do you think?
I got this Halter Lace-up Tank Top and this High Waist Mesh Maxi Skirt from Rosewholesale. I really love the bohemian-y vibe in my outfit, though it's not my style, but here's to trying out many more styles :)

One thing i love about this outfit is that, it shows enough skin. Because in dressing up, you have to balance things out, unless you wanna show too much skin (it's your choice). And because im wearing a maxi skirt and it covers up my whole legs, i paired it sleeveless top so that i won't look too covered under the blazing heat of Mr. Sun.
 See what i did there? Balance. 

Also, i accessorized it with this Leaf Pendant Clavicle Chain Necklace from Jewelrycoco. I love how subtle and eye-catching this one is. It gives an elegance feel to my whole outfit. Because the mesh maxi skirt is eye-catching enough and my top is just plain, but i don't want to over-do it by putting a statement necklace, you know me guys, i don't like too flashy and i don't like it if there's a lot going on in my outfit. So this necklace is really perfect, not too much but just perfect enough.

bag: Hued Bags
shoes: old

What do you think of this look guys?
Comments are loved <3

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  1. Great inspiration, loving your skirt!!

  2. Such a cute look! The skirt is amazin.

  3. fantastic skirt!

  4. That was a very inspiring intro for your blogpost <3 and I have to say you did a great job of the color combination of your outfit there :)

  5. I like your style. Looks amazing.
    Have a nice day.
    Julia x
    Fashion Inspiration Blog

  6. I love your necklace and your skirt.
    Very pretty.

    Keep in touch
    x isa | My Blog: Stoer & Sexy

  7. This post is amazing!
    Well said!
    The outfit is amazing as well :)

  8. Such an inspiring post, Sarah! You write very well & love those shots!
    Luxury Haven

  9. love your sandails <3333
    so cute and girly! love it

  10. Really nice post. I like your outfit, too! :)

  11. Totally gorgeous look! Love the skirt and what you wrote! Great point- the choice we make should be one our future selves would be happy with!

  12. Lovely look, cute skirt and necklace!

  13. Love the skirt and the shoes :) And love what you have written at the beginning of the post - very thought provoking.

  14. I guess my the choices is more difficult that what we think, but we'll never know the right one unless we experience the wrong one :) life is more interesting with mistakes and bad choices anyway so kebs! ahhhaha btw,great skirt Sarah!!! I love it so much!!!

    love lots,

  15. Lovely outfit. You are so pretty :)

  16. so elegant, love you skirt<3

  17. you look amazing

  18. i love your outfit! even though its not your style as you said you look great! i love the skirt and the details! the leaf necklace is gorgeous! :D

  19. You look fabulous, Sarah! That skirt is amazing. And yes, I did read the entire blog post ;) Word for word! <3

  20. I love reading your "choices" post! It definitely makes you think deeper about your life... Lovely outfit, by the way, I love your shoes <3

    Thank you so much for visiting my blog, it makes me so happy <3

  21. Love this outfit! Even though bohemian is not your style but it does suits you. I enjoy reading your blog so much :)

    Deasy Tantra

  22. Nice post. I enjoyed reading your post.
    You look stunning and I love your outfit. <3


  23. Love those bohemian looks . Yeah we made choice everytime . I agree wif you . ♥


  24. Nice post darling!
    Have a wonderful Sunday :)

  25. You look great! I love your black skirt, that's gorgeous! Your necklace is really pretty too! I have a similar skirt, but in burgundy!

    Raindrops of Sapphire

  26. The skirt is really beautiful, I love the details! :)

  27. I like this. I agree on showing enough skin, this might be one of my inspirations to wear to a wedding next month. Still looking for what to wear. :)



  28. Great post darling! you are so right, taking the right choices would be nice but if you don't, it is ok as long as you learn from your mistakes! lovely look, the maxi skirt is beautiful!


  29. Wow, your blog is really neat! Love that skirt of yours xo

    ♡, Jamie of

  30. Hi Sarah :)
    I have to agree with your post and yes, It is our choices...that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.

    and as always, looking pretty ka sa iyong OOTD!

    Have a great day!

  31. That skirt is so fabulous! I love how you've styled it :)

    And I love how you put something thoughtful with an outfit post - a great idea and a great post :)

    Gabby xo

    Blog - What She Buys / Instagram / Twitter

  32. Beautiful words doll, love the skirt, so gorgeous!! xx

  33. Fabulous outfit, your skirt is beautiful!!!
    Have a nice day!
    Angela Donava

  34. You look fabulous, love it!

    Love, Rachel

  35. Gorgeous! Loving the black and white and that skirt!

    <3 Shannon

  36. Love your breezy skirt! Such a relaxing outfit, love it <3
    New Post: Checked Skirt
    xoxo, Claire from Vancouver, Canada

  37. This skirt is so beautiful, i love it !
    See you soon,

    Aleeth from Littles notes...

  38. Love that skirt and shoes! Very pretty!

  39. Sweet, all your words are wonderful and inspiring .. I agree with you , we can lose , people can break our hearts but we have to think we are stronger than we think.
    I love your look , the combination between all clothes is just perfect :) I love the skirt and the top :)

  40. I love your necklace and skirt!!

  41. Cute outfit! I love the simple color scheme!

    (IG: @TheStardustBohemian)

  42. OMG Sarah what a beautiful post. I love your little note to self, I'm going to remind myself of that last line daily now. I know it's going to stick with me. Do something your future self will thank you for. Such a beautiful statement. Thanks for this!


  43. Your outfit is so cute and you are very lovely :) Thanks for the nice comment on my blog. I am very happy to find yours! As for choices, I have to say some of my fondest memories have come from some very "bad" choices :) But I have been learning to see the words "good" and "bad" in a different way lately, tailoring them to suit me and my life. Oh gosh, I am writing a novel now. Jo's piece on comments has me paranoid to leave a bad comment :) Haha so I will close but thank you again for your nice comment!

  44. First of all, you're gorgeous!!! <3 And you look stunning with that gaze skirt! Next, you're absolutely right about the choices we make...i kinda realised that dayummm, I actually settled rather than work for what I wanted! Thanks for the wake up call, babe!!! <3

  45. Wow, what an opener! I feel so inspired by the questions you presented about the choices we make and whether our future selves will appreciate what we've done. Really makes you rethink so much, huh?
    Anyway, not only do you have great thoughts, you've got some fabulous style! Love this chic black and white outfit :)

    The Dragonfruit Diaries

  46. Awesome shots!
    Have a nice day!
    Photographer Gil Zetbase

  47. Love the skirt! This outfit seems so fresh and feminine!!You look gorg! Congrats!


  48. Oooh the skirt is soo nice; I love that sheer panel. I don't know how I would style it but I think it could look gorgeous in some bright heels. I also have a leaf necklace that looks quite similar to yours but is a lot more intense in that it has loooads of leaves; maybe I will feature it on my blog one day and you can have a look. I wore it to prom and I just think they are so dainty. I totally get what you mean about making right and wrong choices, but I think that everything happens for a reason, so even if you make the wrong choice, you will be grateful for it later in life. And there isn't necessarily a right or wrong for everything, some decisions have five right options and no wrong ones! Rosemary x

  49. I particularly love what you write, you are so true. The outfit is cool and effortless. Great job :)

  50. I really love that maxi skirt! I think a nice black skirt is always a good staple in anybody's closet. I also like the accessories you used. That leaf-shaped pendant is very beautiful.


    Sweet Helen Grace

  51. i really love that necklace! ♥

  52. Nice simple and romantic outfit my Dear~ You look so pretty <3 <3

    With Love,

  53. Love your skirt dear <3

  54. omg i love the skirt and shoes !!!
    i agree that we are the choices we make. it makes me realize that the future is indeed in MY OWN hands.

    Slumber Talk

  55. I love Blog Sarah. Beautiful !
    Happy .

  56. A very inspiring post. Your outfit is amazing....



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